In January, I go through all the Christmas cards we received the previous month. I re-read the letters, take another look at the pictures, and file everything in a 3-ring binder. I’ve been doing this since 2000, and I have two 3-inch binders almost full of letters and “annual Christmas photos” from friends and family.
I enjoy reading the letters and looking at the photos. It’s amazing to see how everyone changes over the years.
However, there are some odd omissions I find in many letters. So, just in case you want to get into the “annual Christmas Family Letter Writing Trend,” here are some tips to help your letters stand the test of time.
– Put the year on your letter. About 10 years after my grandmother passed away, I had the opportunity to go through her correspondence – she kept everything! Some of the treasures I found included the letters she and my grandfather wrote to each other when courting in the 1930’s. There were many interesting letters from friends and family members whose names I recognized, but were not dated. Not knowing some of the people very well, I was not able to place the letters in any sort of chronological context, and some of the sparkle was lost.
On the other hand, I was charmed when reading old letters (with dates), and imagining my grandmother writing a letter in her teens and early married years. The date provides a great connection, perspective, and context to letters, years later.
– SIGN your letters! Even if you just put “The Smith Family” at the end, it’s important to sign your letters. I receive more than 25 letters from family and friends, and when I read them again in January (and file them away), sometimes it’s a guessing-game to determine who sent the letter (this is particularly true for my husband’s friends – many of whom I do not know well).
– Print on nice paper with good printer ink. Maybe you think it doesn’t matter, or that everyone throws out your letter at the end of Christmas, but letters on nice paper and with clear printing are a joy to read and have a better chance of standing the test of time. On the other hand, letters on cheap copy paper from a poor quality printer sometimes doesn’t make it through the first year.
– If you send a photo instead of a letter, identify everyone (and put the year!) I don’t see your children every year, and if I don’t know you well, I might not know your children. As I get older and my peers are adding grandchildren to the mix, it’s even more confusing. I love to see your family pictures, but I would really like to know who I’m looking at.
Bonus – Email Letter Trend. In recent years, more of my friends and family have been sending their annual “Christmas Letter” via email. I don’t mind (mostly), but take time to create a nicely-formatted letter as a separate attachment to your email.
Christmas letters get a bad rap, but I think they are an important (and increasingly rare) connection between family and friends – make your correspondence count!
Great post from Lara Chase (who happens to be a cousin to me, but don’t let that fool you – she’s a great writer)
Check our her comments about getting fit with several low-cost or no-cost ways.
It’s the time of year when your scale and your bank account are telling you filthy lies. At least you hope they’re lying. Surely you didn’t eat that many gingerbread cookies? But you found such good Black Friday sales! It’s enough to make a person depressed.
Fear not, for I have some low or no cost ways to sweat off those holiday pounds. I am a notorious cheapskate, so I’ve spent a lot of time trying to find interesting ways to exercise that don’t involve a yearly contract or plopping down $40 a month.
I applaud those people who walk, run, and bike, but all of those activities are so boring to me that I won’t ever exercise if they’re my only options. I prefer exercise classes, yoga, pilates, zumba, etc. For a long time I thought the only way to participate in those activities was to join a gym…
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The Old Man in Storr shawlette that I just completed was easy enough and small enough to take with me when I carpooled with colleagues to a presentation last week. I was a bit hesitant about taking knitting with me “in public.” While I take hand-work (usually, cross stitch) to conferences when I’m one among dozens (or hundreds) in the audience, and use the cloak of relative anonymity, this was me with two close colleagues in a car for a hour-long ride, so I wasn’t sure whether they would think it rude of me, or whether I could focus on the conversation and keep track of the knitting.
Both (conversation and knitting) worked out just fine. My knitting sparked comments about their family members’ knitting, and we talked about the project for about 45 seconds, and then went back to our work-related discussion. No big deal.
I normally don’t care to car-pool (independent person that I am), but for this conference, it seemed silly for all three of us to drive to the same destination an hour away, and I really appreciated having someone else at the wheel. In the future, I may keep this in mind when someone else offers to drive – I just hope I have some portable knitting ready to go (another reason to always keep a sock project on the needles!).
What are your thoughts about “knitting in public”?